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August 10, 2011

Respect is an intriguing thing. For whatever reasons, watching all this coverage of the London riots and thinking about the behavioural and economic factors underlying them – I’ve started to draw comparisons to a number of things in local news , and even my everyday business life.

You see, there’s not a religion or reasonable person in the word that doesn’t encourage us to respect others – no matter what. From memory, I think it’s Islam that actively encourages one to accommodate their worst enemy – if they are brave enough to ask you for it.

Confucius even said: “Without feelings of respect, what is there to distinguish men from beasts?”

For whatever reason – in the case of the London riots, there’s years of economic hardship, a generational gap, and even elements of racism and other prejudice that have bubbled beneath the surface – respecting others is such a simple thing and gets overlooked time and again; and often with an unpleasant result.

Think of a time when you received poor customer service without due cause – how did you feel and react? Simply being treated poorly by a shop clerk these days can result in people using their personal media to lambast businesses and organisations, start movements and produce a counter-attack’ of sorts.

I know I’ve done it several times without really intending it as a form of counteracting perceived disrespect. When the power company drilled in the street outside my living room until 3am on a Monday – I responded in kind, with social media as my weapon of choice. When my gym kept billing me for weeks after I had canceled all payments – I responded in kind with disrespect for the brand. When my local Member of Parliament used an anti-immigration slogan as his way of getting into office – I gave him back all the disrespect I could muster.

And after all that, here’s the kicker; Whether you’re a Community Manager, a politician, a Business Manager, or even just the shop clerk at the front desk that has just realized they’re being an ass – escalating the situation never works out as a ‘win-win’ situation, but defusing it re-establishes a sense of mutual respect. In my book, that’s good business, good politics, and a good way to conduct yourself as a human being.

While it might make me seem old, the message is simple – if you go about your life intent on disrespecting people, organisations and everyone that doesn’t suit your tastes and lifestyle – expect to get the same treatment.

But in the end, I think ‘Old Blue Eyes’ may have said it best:

 “Throughout my career, if I have done anything, I have paid attention to every note and every word I sing – I respect the song. If I cannot project this to a listener, I fail.” ~ Frank Sinatra 

Let that be a lesson for us all.

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